NERVOUS FEELING

           Talking about nervous feeling, many people will know about that feeling. Nerve is one of the feelings that everyone has felt about that. Based on Cambridge dictionary nerve is bravery or confidence necessary to do something difficult, unpleasant or rude. And nervous is worried or anxious or It can say that nervous is uncomfortable feeling. When people have nerve, they get uncomfortable condition with their self and the situation around them. Because the nervous feeling is something that can disturb yourself when you have to do activity that is dealing with many people, here there are some explanations about that feeling.

Signs of nervous
1.    Increasing the frequency of the heart
When people get nerve, their heart frequency will increase more than 80x/second. It is because your heart is influence your nervous feeling that has same feeling with afraid feeling. When people are afraid about something their heart’s frequency will increase.
2.    Trembling body
Trembling body is another signs of feeling nervous. Your body will be trembled when you come forward in front of audience. The common parts of body which are trebled usually hand and feet. It can be seen clearly when you hold something or stand up.
3.    Getting cool sweat
Sweat also becomes other signs or feeling nervous. It is common when people do public speaking and they get sweat. But if they get nervous feeling too much they will get cool sweat in their body.
4.    Speaking in a part
Another signs is people who get nervous will speak in part. It means that they cannot speak fluently when they explain something or speak what they have prepared before. And it influences the way of their speaking.
5.    Looking  at down on the ground
This sign is very clear sign of feeling nervous. The audiences are in front of you, but you don’t see them. Besides showing your nervous feeling, it also impolite attitude. It can show that you don’t respect the audience.
6.    Hiding a part of body
Some people think that hiding the parts of their body will reduce their nerve. It it probably because the audience will not see their trembling body, but that attitude also signs of nerve.
7.    Crossing arms or legs
This sign is also clear enough to see because it can be seen when you do public speaking clearly. Actually this way can make your nerve increasing. It is because you cannot move your body freely and it can give you more verve.
The situation can make nerve
 1.  Public speaking or performance
Public speaking or performance are situation when you have to do speaking in front of the audience like doing speech, debate, drama, and many other performance.
2.   Meeting strangers
When you meet strange people, you will be afraid of him, and when you are afraid, the nervous feeling will appear because of that.
3.  Job interviews
Job interviews is condition that everyone usually get nerve, it is because when you do that, you hope that can receive in that position and you will do the best for that situation. When you have to do the best thing, you usually feel nerve.
4.   Starting a new sport, hobby or new activity for the first time
Starting a new thing is very interesting, we often uncurious about that. Besides uncurious we will also feel nerve because we are afraid of doing that. It is nice or not.
5.   Appointments or meetings that needs more focus
This condition can appear when you meet boss or someone who has higher level than you. You will feel nerve because you have to give the best performance or answer their question easily.

The causes of nerve
•    Less preparation
Someone who feels nerve is because they are less preparation. Preparation is something important to do because without preparation everything can be difficult to do. We do not know what to do and it can make us fell more nervous. That is why preparation is very important step to do for the first time.
•    Doubt
Because of doubt, people who have prepared their material will get nervous feeling also because they think what they are doing is wrong. If you feel that, your nerve and your afraid feeling will come true.
•    Not calm
Nerve can be happened because you are not calm with your condition. You cannot control yourself to be calm and think positively. Calm is the first step to manage your nerve. If cannot be calm, everything that you have prepared before will be lose and you will get bed because you cannot control it.
•    Less confident
Less confident is also causes of nerve. You are not confident because you think you have the bad thing in your life. Whereas, everybody is not perfect and you think that you are the most unperfected people in this world. If you have thought about that, you absolutely feel nerve.

Tips to manage nervous
•    Relax
For the first time you have to do when you are nerve is being relaxed. You can do many things in order to make you relax. For example drinking water, chewing babble gum, reading something, exercising your performance, or many others. The main point of this is you have to feel relax as good as possible you can.
•    Don’t be panic
Panic is also virus of your condition. You have to avoid that panic before you feel nervous. Or if you have felt nerve, don’t be panic because you cannot concentrate what you are going to discuss. If it is happened, it will be dangerous for you.
•    Be sure with yourself
Before doing performance, you have to be sure with yourself. Think that you are the best one in that performance, but don’t say it to everyone. It can be arrogant. Just give spirit to yourself and it makes you sure with what you are going to do.
•    Never looks as bad as it feels
You may not think that you are worse than the people before you. You have to think that everyone has different character, and you also have the best thing in yourself. That is why you have to look for yourself in positive side.
•    Deep breathing
This is easy way to do because everyone can do it. Breathing deeply can make body relax. Especially your neck, your arm, and your head. It is very useful for managing nerve.
•    Don’t be frustrated or angry
Frustrated or angry will add your nerve. Because those can make you more stress than before. Just try to manage your anger in order to make calm yourself.
•    Try to be prepared
Trying to prepare well what you have to explain with getting many resources and much exercise. If you have prepared well, your nerve will be lose because you are ready to do the best for your performance.
•    stop any negative thoughts
You have to stop any negative thinking in your mind because it can make you underestimate yourself. Try to think positively in every single condition you face. Everything can be positive if you think that is positive for you. Just try to think as good as possible.

Conclusion
Nervous is common feeling that everyone has felt it. There are many situations, causes that can make us nervous but all of them can be controlled if we know and want to control it with some tops to manage our nervous. SO, MANEGE YOUR NERVE BEFORE NERVE CONTROLS YOU

Passive voice part 1

Change to passive voice

1.    A : He invites her
       P :
2.    A : She borrows my book
       P :
3.    A : They call us everyday
       P :
4.    A : We clean our house every morning
       P :
5.    A : She and he cook rice
       P :
6.    A : I am opening the door
       P :
7.    A : He is washing her clothes now
       P :
8.    A :You are watching television
       P :
9.    A : You have cooked rice
       P :
10.  A : She has bought a new car
       P :
11.  A : They have been studying English
       P :
12.  A : My mother has been visiting you
      P :
13. A : The hunter caught a lion yesterday
      P :
14. A : they are playing football
     P :
15. A : We played football two days ago
      P :

Change to active voice

1.    A :
      P : She is guided by her teacher five times a week
2.    A :
       P : He is being invited by them now
3.    A :
       P : we have been called by him
4.    A :
       P : She will be visited by him
5.    A :
       P : A rose was being given by him yesterday
6.    A :
       P : A story was told by her yesterday
7.    A :
       P : A car had been driven by me last week
8.    A :
       P : An English has been being spoken by her
9.    A :
       P : A chicken will be being cut by my father
10.   A :
        P : You had been being met by them

Translate into English
1.    Bibiku sering dihubungi oleh ibuku
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2.    Buku matematika sedang dibaca oleh guruku
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3.    Ayam goreng dimakan oleh kakekku kemaren
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4.    Teman-temanku  telah diundang oleh ibumu 
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5.    Kami telah sedang diajari oleh guru kami selama satu jam  sampai sekarang
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6.    Jangan sedih sari... Kamu akan ditemui oleh ibumu minggu depan
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7.    Pelajaran ini telah dijelaskan oleh guruku
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8.    Soal-soal ini sedang dikerjakan oleh murid-murid di kelas
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9.    Mobil kami dibeli oleh temanku minggu lalu
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10.    Nasi goreng sedang dimakan oleh mereka didapur sekarang
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QUESTION TAG EXCERCISES

1.      Everyone is dizzy, _________________?

2.      Everything is ready, ________________?

3.      No one is sleepy, ___________________?

4.      Nothing is ours, _____________________?

5.      Someone does something in somewhere, ____________________?

6.      You and he can do it, ______________?

7.      Let’s speak English, ______________?

8.      I am tidy, _________________?

9.      Let me sit beside your friend, ____________?

10.  She’s been tired, ______________?

11.  Everyone does it, ____________?

12.  His niece is stingy, ___________?

13.  She and your brother are jogging, ______________?

14.  Speak English, _____________?

15.  Don’t speak Javanese, _____________?

16.  They are fine, ___________?

17.  Take it, __________?

18.  Mine is yours, ____________?

19.  Someone was crying, ______________?

20.  Something was flying, ____________________?

21.  Nothing is impossible, ________________?

22.  Everything is possible, _______________?

23.  No one is absent, _________?

24.  Nobody has written a letter, _______________?

25.  Everybody is going to school. _________________?

26.  You, she, and I are speaking English, ___________?

27.  Your mother and you will go to market tomorrow morning, ______________?

28.  She and he can do the best, ________________?

29.  They, she, and he have climbing nothing, _________________?

30.  Love me, ___________?

31.  Don’t be shy, ______________?

32.  Let’s do it together, _________?

33.  There is a book on the table, ______________?

34.  His is my book, __________________?

35.  Those are three chairs, _________________?

36.  There aren’t ten students in my class, _____________?

37.  Let’s study, ___________?

38.  That is mine, ______________?

39.  These aren’t my friends, _____________?

40.  That isn’t yours, ______________?

41.  I was making cake nowhere, __________________?

42.  Someone will love you, ________________?

43.  No one had had a hat, ____________?

44.  They were absent, ________________?

45.  You and he was buying nothing, ______________?

46.  I got three letters two days ago, _____________________?

47.  Her uncle be working at 8 o’clock tomorrow, ____________________?

48.  You can do the test, ____________________?

49.  Few men came to here last night, ________________?

50.  A few men came to her last night, ________________?

51.  You took my book, ________________?

52.  I always make you happy, ______________?

53.  I never make you happy, _________________?

54.  He hardly ever visited his parents last year, _________________?

55.  My boyfriend gives me two flowers, ____________________?

56.  A widow is sitting alone beside a window, _________________?

57.  His aunt will be sad, _____________?

58.  Writing makes me tires, __________________?

59.  His name is jack,_______________?

60.  The play was very interesting, _____________?

61.  The young man said rudely, ____________________?

62.  I never get up early on Sunday, ______________?

63.  She isn’t studying English, __________________?

64.  She’s been studying English, _________________?

65.  She’s studying English, ____________________?

66.  She’s studied English, _____________________?

67.  A police man drives a police car, ______________?

68.  Her son will help her tonight, __________________?

69.  My name is yudi, ___________________?

70.  Yudi is my brother, _________________?

71.  They were expecting valuable parcel, _________________?

72.  They couldn’t speak English well, ___________________?

73.  Cinta isn’t your name, _____________________?

74.  You will never be patient, ___________________?

75.  My mother cut my flower, ___________________

Translate into English

76.  Kamu anak yang rajin kan?

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77.  Orang tuamu akan pergi kejepang minggu depan kan?

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78.  Kamu bisa mengerjakan PR mu, kamu pintar kan?

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79.  Cinailah hidup mu, mau kan?

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80.  Tak ada seorangpun yang datang kerumahmu kemaren kan?

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81.  Jangan ganggu aku, mau kan?

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82.  Saudara perempuanmu bisa berbicara bahasa inggris kan?

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83.  Saudara laki-lakimu tidak malas kan?

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84.  Semua orang mencintaiku kan?

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85.  Buku-buku itu mahal kan?

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MOTIVATION WORDS

As human being we need everything that can help to solve our problem, but solving our problem sometimes makes us confused to do. We need something to motivate us as big power to solve it. One of them is motivation word. Motivation words are words that can motivate us. There are so many kinds of motivation words, but the main point whatever are those, and wherever are from, those words can give a big power to face our life.

I’m sure everyone has something or someone to motivate them. For example the thing or people that can motivate them is their family, their friend or maybe from the book that they have read. As like the other people, I have someone and something to motivate me. Those are my family, my friend and the motivational book that I have read.

Here are some of motivation words that are from my friend and my book that have given me a big power in my life.

1.      If you can’t do great things, do small things in a great way. That’s why, don’t tell about how hard you work, but tell how much you get done. Don’t think to be the best, but think to do the best. God gives us nuts, but he doesn’t crack them for us. Life consists not in holding good card, but in playing those you do hold well. Even if you are on the right track, you will get run over if you just sit there.

2.      There is a hero if you look inside your heart. You don’t have to be afraid of what you are. There is an answer if you reach into your soul. And the sorrow that you know will melt away, and then a hero comes a long with the strength to carry on. And you cast your tear a side, and you know you can survive. So when you feel like hope is gone, look inside and you will be strong. And you will finally see the truth. That a hero lies in you. It’s long road, and you face the world alone. You won’t reach inside your head for you to hold. You can find love, if you search within your self, and the emptiness there will disappear.

3.      “ Did “ is a word of achievement

“Won’t “is a word of retreat

“Might” is a word of bereavement

“Can’t” is a word of defeat

“Ought” is a word of duty

“Can” is a word of power

4.      Nothing comes from doing nothing

Take time to think. It’s the source of power.

Take time to be friendly. It’s the road to the happiness.

Take time to laugh. Laughter is the music of soul.

Take time to share life is too short to be selfish.

5.      Frustration, aggressiveness, insecurity, loneliness, uncertainty, resentment, emptiness are the element of FAILURE. These are our number one big enemy.

6.      Every human think love will always make them happy but sometimes love will make them so sad.

7.      To the world, you maybe one person, but to one person you maybe the world.

8.      We can’t do everything but we can try to do something that we can do the best.

9.      Different isn’t always better, but the best is always different.

10.  You can do everything if you think you can.

11.  If you want something you’ve never had, you must be willing to do something you’ve never done.

 12. The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.

Reminder words for me and all people who want to respect the meaning of love

This reminder word is from book that I forget its title. And who knows the title of this book can gives me information. All these sentences can remind us to be better.

1.      Kepada sahabatku yang telah menikah

Cinta itu bukan tentang “itu adalah salahmu”

Tapi tentang “maafkanlah aku”

Bukan tentang “dimana saja kau””

Tetapi tentang “aku disisimu”

Bukan tentang “bagaimana kau tega berbuat demikian”

Tapi tentang “dapat kumengerti tindakanmu”

Bukan juga tentang “coba saja kau disini”

Tapi tentang “aku bersyukur kau ada disini”

2.      Kepada sahabatku yang telah bertunangan

Ukuran kecocokan bukanlah banyak tahun yang telah kau lewati bersama tapi sebaik apa kau dimata kekasihmu.

3.      Kepada sahabatku yang masih membujang

Cinta bukanlah tentang menjadi seseorang yang sempurna bagi orang lain, tapi tentang menemukan seseorang yang dapat membantumu menjadi manusia paling baik sesuai kemampuanmu.

4.      Kepada sahabatku yang patah hati

Patah hati dapat berlangsung selama yang kau kehendaki dan meninggalkan luka sedalam yang kau ingini. Tantangannya bukan bagaimana kau bisa hidup setelah kau patah hati  tapi bagaimana kau memetik pelajaran dari peristiwa itu.

5.      Kepada sahabatku yang belum berpengalaman

Boleh tersandung tapi jangan jatuh

Boleh konsisten tapi jangan keras kepala

Berbagilah dan jangan tidak fair

Cobalah memahami jangan menuntut

Boleh terluka tapi jangan kau simpan sedihnya.

6.      Kepada sahabatku yang sedang mencari pasangan hidup

Cintah sejati tidak dapat ditemukan ditempat yang ia memang tidak ada, dan tidak bisa disembunyikan ditempat yang memang ia ada. Cinta mempunyai kekuatan gaib. Semakin kau sembunyikan semakin tampak, semakin kau tekan semakin tumbuh.

7.      Kepada temanku yang playboy atau play girl

Jangan berkata “aku cinta kau”

Bila kau tidak menaruh hati padanya

Jangan bicara tentang suatu perasaan bila perasaan itu tidak ada.

Jangan kau masuk dalam kehidupanya bila kau bermaksud mematahkan hatinya

Jangan menatap matanya bila kau berbohong.

8.      Kepada sahabatku yang possessive

Sungguh menyakitkan melihat orang yang kau kasihi mencintai orang lain. Tapi lebih menyakitkan mengetahui orang yang kau cintai tidak bahagia bersamamu.

9.      Kepada sahabatku yang takut mengakui

Cinta menyakitkan bila kau berpisah dengan seseorang tapi lebih menyakitkan bila seseorang memutuskan untuk berpisah denganmu, dan lebih menyakitkan lagi bila orang yang kau cintai tidak mengerti sama sekali tentang perasaanmu.

12 INDONESIA WISE WORDS

     Here are twelve indonesia wise word that can change my life to be better. i share them for everyone who reads them. i hope they can be useful for the others.

1.      Tidak ada masalah yang terlalu besar untuk dihadapi. Tidak ada langkah yang terlalu panjang untuk dijalani dan tidak ada orang yang terlalu sulit untuk dihadapi ketika kita mampu menyikapi semua peristiwa yang terjadi dengan hati yang jernih dan kepala dingin.

2.      Orang bijak membagi manusia menjadi 3

a.      Orang bodoh: manusia yang selalu melalaikan dan mengesampingkan setiap kesempatan.

b.      Orang baik: manusia yang selalu mengambil kesempatan yang datang kepadanya.

c.     Orang bijak: manusia yang selalu mencari kesempatanyang memungkinkan dirinya untuk terus berkembang tanpa harus banyak menunggu.

3.     Kita tidak akan melihat masa depan sebagai kelanjutan masa lalu karena masa depan akan sangat berbeda dengan masa lalu. Kita harus meninggalkan cara kerja lama supaya kita sukses di masa depan.

4.      Terbangun dari tidur dan menyadari kenyataan tak seindah mimpi. Kita hanyalah manusia biasa yang tak bisa merubah mata angin dan warna pelangi. Berserahlah diri dan tunduk atas kuasaNYa. Karena tuhan pasti punya rencana lain buat kita.

5.    Ujian dalam kehidupan bukanlah untuk mematahkan hidupmu melainkan untuk membentuk dirimu. Percayalah bahwa kamu memiliki kekuatan untuk menyelesaikan masalah apapun. Terimalah keadaan yang diberikan oleh kehidupan padamu, dan mainkan keadaan tersebut tanpa mengeluh. Hanya dengan berfikir kamu bisa, maka kamu akan bisa menyelsesaikan apapun.

6.     Ada orang yang memang lahir dengan dengan bakat tertentu dan ada orang yang terlahir tanpa bakat tapi punya kemauan keras. Jika kita sudah punya itu maka selurug jagat raya akan bahu membahu membantu kita meraih apa yang kita inginkan.

7.      2 hal yang paling jahat adalah pikiran negative kita sendiri dan ketakutan terbesar dalam diri kita. Itulah musuh kita yang sebenarnya.

8.      Masa lalu jangan selalu dikenang tapi juga jangan dilupakan. Jadikan masa lalumu sebagai pijakan untuk menyambut masa depan.

9.      Temukanlah makna di dalam kehidupan dan kerjakanlah sesuatu yang nyata bagi banyak orang.

10.  Mendapatkan apa yang kamu inginkan dari hidup membutuhkan motivasi terarah. Untuk itu ketauilah apa yang ingin kamu kerjakan dan apa yang dapat kamu kerjakan dengan paling baik.

11.  Nikmatilah hal-hal kecil dalam kehidupan ini. Karena suatu saat nanti kita akan melihat ke belakang dan menadari bahwa sesunggunya semua itu penting.

12.  Tidak ada seorangpun dapat kembali ke masa lalu untuk membuat suatu awal baru. Tapi setiap orang dapat memulai saat ini untuk membuat suatu akhir yang baru.